“Hello, I’m Pam. I’m an author, a storyteller, and this is where I explore one big theme: resilience. My writing is born from a life of navigating challenges, from foster care and homelessness to single motherhood. Here, we’re in the business of turning scars into strength.”
Now, at sixty-four, I see the lines around my eyes, and I know their names. One is for the creek, one for the cold, one for the day I brought my children home. They are not scars. They are the etchings of a map, showing the way from a place of ruin to a house…
Forget the color of my hair or the lines around my mouth. To understand who I am, think instead of texture and temperature, of substance and sound. I am not made of sand, shifting with every tide. Feel instead for stone, weathered and solid, holding a deep, ancient warmth within… My skin is not a…
But listen close, my wild-fire dear, from sixty-four, the view is clearer now. Each mistake you make, each falling tear, is carving strength upon your brow. That impulsive flame you cannot tame, that fierce refusal to be small, will one day be the power in your name, the force that helps you conquer all.
Across the miles, where continents softly dream, Two hearts awaken to the dawning gleam. In California, where the Pacific sighs, The morning paints its hues in western skies.
Real people are messy. We’re walking, talking bundles of contradictions. A character who is purely good or purely evil is not only boring, they’re unbelievable. The key to creating a believable character is to find their central contradiction. A ruthless CEO who volunteers at an animal shelter every weekend. A shy librarian who has a…
Many people think the act of writing is just getting the words down, but for me, writing is truly rewriting. This is where the real work—and the real magic—begins. I break my editing into distinct passes to avoid feeling overwhelmed. The Cooling-Off Period: I never edit a piece immediately after I finish drafting it. I…
My power is not a fortress wall; It is the courage just to call A friend and say, “I’m not okay.” It is the grace to want to stay And feel the feeling, sharp and true, Without the hazy veil of you.
I drink your sorrow, wear your dread, I mock the tear you try to hide. I know the words you leave unsaid, The brittle fortress of your pride. But all this feeling, fierce and true, Can never break my surface through.
The house stood stark, a place of fear, Where young years echoed shouts I’d hear. My forts arose, in leafy space, A hidden haven, a safe place. For in the wild, I learned to be, The architect of my own decree.